I met girl for dinner on Wed nite. She knows I like the pasta at Shoduko Jap Restaurant and so we went there. As usual, pasta + waffer with ice-cream.

Waiter asked what ice-cream to go with waffer. I said to girl “Rum & rasins okay?”, and she goes “Yeah, okay.”. And order taken.

Comes the waffer. She ate the first 1/4… finishes it… and i was about the give her the 2nd 1/4…. then she said “Do u remember the salty coffee story?”. I said “Yeah, why?”.

She goes “Actually i dun like rum & rasins at all.”

I said “Then why u din stop me? Some more i asked u twice.”

She just keep laughing. girl – yeap, i couldnt stop laughin! She wanted to let me have wat i want, to make me happy, and thus make her happy as well.

Girl, i do appreciate ur tots from ur heart. girl  – oh please. i’m not usually this nice. keke But then huh, why toture urself!? Wat if i like to eat duck buttocks and i ordered a whole plate. (for ur info, duck buttocks is most smelly thing that appears on a dinning table, to me). girl – sorry. i draw the line at duck. u know i dont eat duck.

Moral of the story? I let girl finish this, coz she and i were sort of fighting to blog abt this.

girl – the moral is … love is blind? or i’m too stupid ! guy, do your conclusion. i’m still laughin at myself.

Conclusion:  A much milder version of  unconditional love? Stage 10 of unconditional love is when girl sacrifice and eat a plate of duck buttocks i ordered. .. Juz kidding. Find that girl is trying her best to keep me happy, and she did. But…. i’m okay with chocolate chips too.

girl’s conclusion: sorry gotta jump in & interrupt ! i didnt try my best to make him happy… he wanted to have rum & rasins previously but it was sold out! decide to let the man have what he wants.. w/o tinking abt what i want ! like i said..i’m dumb. (the things u do when u love someone !) haha but it wasnt a toture seein him njoyin the rum & rasins…

he nearly did it !

everyone have wants. this is one of his. but he decide against it & he shared with me today the reasons for not doing so.

my reaction? A $500 bumper under the hot sun & rain?!

According to girl, the $500 can be spend on the following:

– gimme the $500. I save it for him & buy him dinner for the next 6 mths.

– fulfill my wish of a mcd bdae & invite the mrt blind lady to sing for me.

– a night stay at sentosa or batam 2D1N.

– buy me the full series of bionicle & he get himself a happy gf for the next 10 days.

love guy for knowing tat its something he won’t admire after a mth.. ! atta boy.

i wont ‘blame’ him if he decided to get it one day, everyone have a right to pamper themselves ! as long as he is happy, i am.

sorry, i cant promise I wont nag at him if he decide to be a F1 driver .. and I cant promise I can live with it, choose spoiler or me?! haha !

Guy: Yar, its no.1 in my list of ‘wants’. Have been surfing car forums and browsing for it. $500…. struggling with: I can buy a mountain bike, i can save it for holidays, $500 juz too ex… lastly, i dun tink my girl will like it too… So i decided to shelf the idea.

Anyway, i shall let a small secret out here, something my girl dunno too. I had spent $1,500 on my new 18″ wheels!! Keke.. Okay girl dun hate me! Haha! But it was changed in day 1. My itchy kaching…

Update: Girl called me immediately after she saw this post and said she want to cane me! Help!

girl – i dont hate you my dear but remind me why did i love u?! why did i hang out with dumb ppl?! it gotta take me days to get over this. sadly, i notice his silly little monkey & not the $1500 wheels. like i mention, it his monies, i’m okie with him spending his monies but i hope he spend it wisely ! but i still need to get my cane. $1500 .. $1500.. $1500 !

Are you good at this?

Fly kite.

Some have described relationship as …  fly kite.

Cant hold on too tight. Cant let go too much.

But how do you know? How to control?

Can feelings be control?

I’m happy, when I was preparing the simple breakfast box for him. had a fun time shopping with my kor ! funny that kor ‘entertain’ me while I buy food for guy, burst out laughing at Giant.. me looking at food while kor carry the basket for me !

Wait, back to my fly-kite tots.

I think its hard to control, you just cant help falling in love with someone. our second date, he was toking & suddenly I had those ‘I can just sit here & fall in love with him’ feeling.

That it. sorry folks. disappoint you.

No conclusion entry.

if you love to whine about your sad life, read this !

www.mymultiplesclerosis.co.uk/misc/rosesiggins.html

Stop whinning. Please be like her – Get a life !

We are inspired by ppl like her..  so strong & positive.

Do cherish what you have. J

PS – A ferrari / monies is not the answer to everything !

well, juz to put some smile in ur face… Enjoy!

A bus carrying only ugly people crashes into an oncoming truck, and everyone inside dies. They then get to meet their maker, and because of the grief they have experienced; He decides to grant them one wish each, before they enter Paradise.

They’re all lined up, and God asks the first one what the wish is. “I want to be gorgeous,” and so God snaps His fingers, and it is done.

The second one in line hears this and says “I want to be gorgeous too.”

Another snap of His fingers and the wish is granted.
This goes on for a while but when God is halfway down the line, the last guy in line starts laughing. When there are only ten people left, this guy is rolling on the floor, laughing.
Finally, God reaches this guy and asks him what his wish will be.

The guy calms down and says: ” Make ’em all ugly again.”

We saw this sign during our HSBC treetop trail walk…..

HSBC Treetop Walk trail danger sign

So…. wat r we suppose to do then? Look upwards when walking? Wear helmets? Buy more insurance? Dun come here? Good luck to you? God bless u?

Just like putting a sign in the public bus that says: “Bus may crash, take care”………

Hey, juz joking…. But start writing ur will….. heehee girl – remember to name me in ur will, joking ! 🙂 i rather have u with me, rather den all the monies in the world. okie, sorry getitn mushy !

my girl wants me to write about my red car, the thing which bothered her all along. girl – thank you !

first date, i insisted on fetching her and sending her home. She kept rejecting, i keep insisting… haha… I was not sensitive enough to pick up her signs of worries in sitting in my car. She’s actually afraid that i might… u know… bring her to a place she doesn’t want go. girl – not my habit to hop into stranger’s car. RED car for god’s sake ! yet i know, he’s not that kind of person.

first time she saw my car, she was thinking “why red? of all colours, why red? r u a playboy?!”. I’m driving a red Lancer EX with a rear spoiler…. Well it looks sporty i agree… playboy? My girl always have that impression of guys who drives doesn’t behave well… girl – sporty?! no, it not! your red car have ‘playboy’ written all over it ! remind myself that guy is NOT that kind of man. at least he’s not when we chat via msn !

Why red? I narrow down with White, Black and Red to choose, so i ask my mum to choose, and my mum choose red. Am i a mummy’s boy?? Keke… Why Lancer EX? I like the roomy interior. Why the spoiler? (spoiler? not english!?) Coz my sales agent throw into my package FOC… Why drive? For work and for my baby niece… girl – he impressed me. playboy to a mummy’s boy / family guy. i like that.

he : 3.30am woke up :: 5.30am reach my place :: sweet tat he waited for me at the lift lobby.

she : 4.30am woke up :: 5.30am met him ::

headed to..

Henderson Wave !

sunrise -orange / blue / sky.. white clouds .. stars.. monkeys.. ?! 😉

got us 2 cans of ice coffee, some cookies, bread, tissue paper, plastic bag for litter, tore out 2 pages of magazine (serve as paper fan!) yeap, I am thoughtful. i know.

Henderson Food Aid

Interrupted by Guy:
I was very impressed abt wat girl had prepared for us. Although we didn’t consume all of it, but i really really appreciate the tots behind the preparation. Thanks girl!

he got us mineral water, ice coffee & he came to pick me up.

i cant decide which is better- nightfall or daybreak?

nightfall – romantic, mysterious, dark, cool, unknown.

daybreak – charming, new, fresh, hope.

breakfast mcd @ queenstown – recharge energy !

headed to..

HSBC Tree Top Walk.

love the nature walk, the trail, the sound of nature, monkeys, greenery, him.

oh, forgot to declare the mission of the day .. “ying needs a headache from the hot weather” ..  self-declare by me.

so.. we headed to ..

Marina Barrage ! bring on the hot weather ! guy say ‘lets be cuttlefish !’

what more can a woman ask for? good companion (very impt) check. nature walk. check. adventure. check. kfc check. hot weather check. tired. check. aching legs. check !

PS – will upload the photos soon.. yeap, i noe ! finally. u guys can ‘meet’ guy.

Guy:

Yup, a super tired after the day’s activities. I think we enjoy the companionship more than the scenery. Definitely 1 of the ‘stupid’ stuff that we will do again. Rite girl? Keke. And if any of u wanted to go HSBC tree walk and searching for the minimum walking distance to the bridge, here’s the answer, park ur car outside SICC, there’s parking lots there!

my first present to him : a black box & mr frog.

guy,

i call this guy’s stress box.

whenever you are feeling stress or down by work, open up one of this & read it. hope you will feel better. i know, someday, you will finished reading all the messages, gotta recycle okay? but if i can, i will think of more ideas, add to your little box.

girl

april 2009

the whole idea:

some problem at work. decided to call him & he sound fraustrated. he let out a groan before ending the call. couldnt get rid of his groan. wondering what could i do to make him feel better & this idea was born.. i cant help him much, i can only listen & think of ways to make him happy..

yeap.. i realise den, i fallen for him. making his problem into my problem. 😉