the old me: whenever i’m upset abt something.
i will raise it up immediately. we have an issue, i’m unhappy, i’m piss off – lets talk things out. right here, right now.

the new me: whenever i’m upset abt something.
i choose to keep quiet, even though i might have a bunch of of bitchy comments roamin in my head. i reckon its better, i dont wish to say anything to destroy the relationship. you can apologize, buy flowers,  go the extra mile but words spoken cant be retrieve.  i refuse to adopt the an-eye-for-an-eye-method, expect the other person to put himself or herself in my shoes. i choose time out and think abt it, work on best solution, but eventually i will talk abt it.

pple are super impressed at my ability to keep things inside until i figure out my next move. its not a necessity skill but i seen the benefits in doing so.

this is the mature me talking. the immature me dumbly choose inappropriate moments to talk things out .. aka monday morning. haha ! okie, i will work on choosing the right moment, right methods, right words for the right pple. arent i a right person? :p

G.