hey !
whatsup??!! how’s it goin?
*big smile

truth to be told – i am not sure what to do with this blog? i adore this blog but the blog is an issue lah. i don’t wanna migrate to a new blog – hminying.com sound awesome and completely me. but, again. it seems strange keepin it. well, stranger thing have happened in life.

okie, how shall we go abt this?
two choice – whine big time over it (with super-long, teary, upsetting entry – which i’m not ) or explain this in my style (fun, tough, happy)
what say you?
well, of coz. in my style.

so, whatever happen to me? ask guy. haha okie, he too shy to blog. so i shall come out with the straight in your face announcement – i am single.
it was a mutually agreed decision.

do i need to state the reason for you kapo readers?
okie. yes i do. we’ve be more friends den couple. (yes, despite what you read from my blog)
the feelin we have for each other is more close friends, i just dont have the courage to admit it !

of coz, i’m okie. otherwise u wont be reading this ! but, thanks for the concern and worrying tots that run through your head.

guy and me – we remain as close friends. he’s my newfound whining friend..  jen is out of town.. 🙁
and yes, we are really good friends. in fact, i feel more comfortable having him as a friend den a bf. haha i’m sorry guy !

okie, enough of explanation. now, can i have the freedom to blog on? 🙂
coz blogging does make me happy and watever make me happy, make me groove-y.
have i lost you? haha !

G.

we’re both impressed with the link hotel. it have everything that you almost need.. except a pool. shampoo / lotion  / toothbrush – you name it, it provided for.green apples at the lift lobby. of coz, we used our fingers to poke it to find out whether it real or fake apples.stop ! what’s this? ta-dah. ice! we got the room service to bring us ‘some ice’ well, the staff got us a bucket of ice. too bad i left the champagne at home.neat. there even ground floor rooms. you dont see this often in sg.

G.

woah. this topic jumped into my head !
and i decided to blog abt it.
it gotta be a fun write.

fight your war from the inside or outside, i am an inside girl, always have been.
i believe in mind over feeling, mind over mind.
aiya, its easier say den done.
tough but achievable.

i’m not one who sit & wait for things to happen. i jump into action.
of coz, i do give myself time to mend some wounds but
hurt, ouch, whatsnext?

first: talk
share it, with someone – to friends who will listen to you cry, to friends who make you laugh, to friends who love you.

second: listen
for advise, for wise words, for comfort

third: be patience
recongise that you are not a ultra-human and expect yourself to get over it asap. i did this to myself. hello, not only me, others have a expectation of me as well. but, ultimately be patience with yourself.

fourth: spend time with yourself
ah. this is different from the usual advise of surrounding yourself with pple. yes, i agreed with that as well but well, sooner or later, you gotta face the loneliness. might as well get it over and done with.

fifth: divert your attention to someone else/ something else
it might be your family, friends or even yourself ! plan a hols, take up a course, now i sound like dummy-guide-to-get-over-it.

hehe ! thank you for readin my bullshit !
G.

hey !
this, here is the next best thing that happened to me recently.
fight back to school.
i cant believe i’m attending class at a ripe old age of 27 yet it feels right at home.

yeap ~ !

a perfect tee.
does it exist?

no. it doesnt.
if i asked you to choose your fav tee, or rather something you are comfortable in, which one will you pick?
the latest tee you gotta, sure it might be the latest trend, the most exp tee that you owned – but does it make it your fav tee?

in reality:
you will probably choose a old tee which you have worn, yet it simply remains your fav.
coz its comfortable, its familiar, and its you.

in short: the richest person is the one who is contented with what he has.

in reality again:
i might choose the new tee, coz the old tee might be out of shape, off-colour and its simply OLD. and, we need new experiences in life. who knows? the new tee might suit you better !

in short: life is a matter of choice? there’s no right or wrong? haha i have no ‘in-short’ for you. it really depends on your chara. i am a little of both.

woah. unexpected ending?!
G.

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oh dear. i was abt to end off this entry when the news caught my attention. its 09/11 tomorrow. every year this day, i will take a min, say a little prayer & remind myself to be thankful of what i have.

G.

long entry – trust me – i have aldy removed alot of photos.. ! 🙂

these are the links:

www.watertours.com.sg/

www.linkhotel.com.sg/en/index.php

www.serenity.com.sg

schedule

2.15pm marriot hotel. van pick up. i was late. opps, pulled jen & we dashed across orchard road. i’m sorry !

guess – where are we going?!it’s a ship.ta-dah ! she wondered – how do i know abt this? coz i’m smart? coz i’m full of ideas? coz i’m groove? keke

3pm cruise

good bye singapore !

2.5hr journey interior. poor us. $27 each. only gotta coffee / tea and kong guan biscuits. passing by.. we ended up at kusu island. its our first time stepping on this little island.the temple, of coz. love this tree. its standing tall, soft yet strong.picture – perfectthat’s home. i supposed. tempted to climb ! aww.. sea. one of the few things i loved.
5.30pm ended. back at marina south pier.

taxi to hotel – guess?

the hint.hotel floor plan – we’re staying at the link !our beds. tv etc bathroom. not bad for $140.
rested before heading out to… vivolook~! we found the troop.  go visit them at vivo.

7.30pm dinner @ serenity. i always wanted to try spanish food & kor said this restaurant pretty good – live band, great food, affordable prices..
well, $60 bucks for two.we sat here !i loved this table lamp.
movie at night.
slp at 3am.

next morning. i made us coffee and tea.
checked out.
lunched. she have be tokin abt ‘liu sha bao’ for the longest time.. since we gotta back from hk. vincent recommended this restaurant.

bosses @ vivowow, either my photography skill fantasticy-good or the food is simply good.
snap this & the staff politely informed me – no photos allow. opps!
lunch for two – another $60.

i’m sorry, no present for jen but i left her with memories. we do spend quite abit on each other’s bdae. figure its the best time of the year to simply papmered your frds.  now, do you wanna be my frds? hehe

i’ll be back – girl.

confession time !
i’m not fond of man driving a ferrari. okie, fond is a understatement. i’m not fond of ferrari, i dont even like cars.. read: the bothersome red car

guy was driving yesterday & we saw a ferrari. how come men are such little boys when it comes to car?!

girl, if one day i drive a ferrari, you wont go out with me right? (i think guy is amazed by my ‘theory’)
no.
den how? i meet you at the dining place and you go home by yourself?
yup, maybe by den, you will have a new gf too ! what make you think YOU will still go out with ME den?

we laughed.

i continued: if you had a ferrari, i’m gotta get a bike, just to be rebellious.

like i always told guy, the day he own a ferrari, its the day he gotta get a new gf. i’m not gotta wait ard for him to dump me.  i’m not sayin tat my boy is sucha man but generally i think men are like that. when you are rich, you look for a better, younger, sexier, prettier basically bimbo-tic gf. just to show off. i will if i’m a man. haha ! no lah, i wont.

i am so mean but so right. izzit? ;P

G.

when you meet your partner – what’s the first thing you do?

i saw this couple at the mrt station. the guy gave the gf (or wife) a smile & immediately reached out for her handbag.

and i knew i’m gotta blog abt this. keke !

anyway, i dont like guy to carry my bag for me. it might be super-heavy (with books) but i still prefer to handle it myself. felt weird seeing him walkin ard with my off-pink/purplish sling bag or white bag or white sling bag or whichever bags i owns.. look werid on him, but, of coz !

make me wondered, whats the first thing i do when i meet my boy.
usually, he will text me. 5 mins. i will find myself grabbin my stuff & head downstairs, parked myself at the roadside & look out for red car. (yes, i really does this!)
i will grow kan chiong while waiting (dont ask me why!) and i will let out a little smile but look away when i spot his car.
open the car door, slide in with a smile & a bright hello ! but i will avoid lookin at him. its a moment when i actually feel shy. yeap, after 4 mths, i still have my shy moments when i’m with him. hehee

okie, that mine.
*blushing G.