guy does gimme lotsa perspective.
dinner with guy the other day and we were tokin abt r/s in general.

came this topic
the way a guy treats his current gf will be the way he treat his next gf.

i got him to repeat x2. i’m s-l-o-w.

example from guy:
man A is attached with woman A.
man A likes woman B, woman B likes man A
man A dumped woman A for woman B.

will he do the same thing to woman B?

agreed:
1) man are cows ! haha
opps !

2) coz the man wont change. there’s NO reason for him to anyway.

3) you love one, u go after what you have. why bother to change?!

disagreed:
what’s your take on whether a leopard changes it spot?

maybe man A finally wake up from his idea and learn to cherish what he have.

and if there’s d case, shouldn’t we give man A a chance? everyone deserve a second chance in life.

what’s impt is the now and the future.
what’s even more impt is man A learn his lesson and don’t commit the same ‘offense’

final decision:
humans are unpredictable.
i do believe that man A will change if woman B is everything that he wanted.
well, for woman B’s happiness, i do hope man A will change.

otherwise, pls. woman B, wake up your idea ! man A did it once, he gotta do it again.

and i will say – good luck.

(note: this doesnt apply to man only. woman commit the same mistake as well)