guy does gimme lotsa perspective.
dinner with guy the other day and we were tokin abt r/s in general.

came this topic
the way a guy treats his current gf will be the way he treat his next gf.

i got him to repeat x2. i’m s-l-o-w.

example from guy:
man A is attached with woman A.
man A likes woman B, woman B likes man A
man A dumped woman A for woman B.

will he do the same thing to woman B?

agreed:
1) man are cows ! haha
opps !

2) coz the man wont change. there’s NO reason for him to anyway.

3) you love one, u go after what you have. why bother to change?!

disagreed:
what’s your take on whether a leopard changes it spot?

maybe man A finally wake up from his idea and learn to cherish what he have.

and if there’s d case, shouldn’t we give man A a chance? everyone deserve a second chance in life.

what’s impt is the now and the future.
what’s even more impt is man A learn his lesson and don’t commit the same ‘offense’

final decision:
humans are unpredictable.
i do believe that man A will change if woman B is everything that he wanted.
well, for woman B’s happiness, i do hope man A will change.

otherwise, pls. woman B, wake up your idea ! man A did it once, he gotta do it again.

and i will say – good luck.

(note: this doesnt apply to man only. woman commit the same mistake as well)

regrouped. with jen.

yeap ! she’s home.

excited me even went as far as the airport to pick her up ! haha who’s like being the norm, its b-o-r-i-n-g!

you know my nix? fairy godmother.
i named her  too, she is evil stepmother. she totally love the nix ! 🙂

(before 1)

(before 2)challenge:
to purchase nippon paint – sugar cookies yellow.
hop to vivo city and the machine broke down.

haha !

got the paint from tamp1 instead.
had to call guy to find out the location of the shop.
(fyi – its located at tamp1 basement)

challenge:
2 hrs to kill before her flight touches down.
plop myself at airport’s swensens with a book, root bear and some light snacks.

(after 1)challenge:
the wall behind the air-con.
i’m out of my league. goodness! it was tough!
the plus point of being small-size, i can fit into the tiny space but it wasnt  a pleasant experience 🙁

challenge:
to paint.
but i broke the paint brush roller. dont ask me how.
accidents seems to happen to me.

challenge:
to paint.
i knocked over the tin of paint. shit !
can someone take the clumsiness out of me?

total mistakes: 8
end of our painting experience.
we loved her bright yellow balcony.

G.

..happy?

i am.
you can practically see me surrounded by lotsa happy bubbles.
(what a description!)

okie, to talk abt ‘happy’ – lets define it.
i’m not gotta give u dictionary.com definition. i’m gotta define ‘happy’ in groove’s language. haha !

laughter

i learn to laugh at almost everything. good or bad. laughter helps.
example: i lost a excel file recently. called for help and yeap, i couldnt retrieve the file, its gone in the digital-unknown world.
i laughed.

this does not make up my definition of happy but it does show how one could deal with ‘screw-up’ in life.

letting go

i once say ‘letting go, its seems to be the norm’
why do you wanna keep unhappy memories? its not gotta lead to long life. haha !
instead of thinkin abt ‘oh, i lost this, i lost that. therefore i am sad’ take a step back and re-evaluate what you have gain in the process. there’s always two equivalent results when something happened. its really a point of view.

extracted from my book:
‘dwelling on the past is simply unproductive. and every moment of life shld be productive’

changes

i wrote this:

a little change would make a big difference. mostly its how you see things? no?
example: hmm.. maybe you think your life is screw up, somehow. and.. ? whine? bitch? whine? bitch? x10
no ! make changes to it. nobody will help you if you dont help yourself

den:

i watched MJ’s this is it. there’s a song – man in the mirror. hearing the song and i know its gotta make it to my blog.

it goes something like:
i’m starting with the man in the mirror
i’m asking him to change his ways
and no message could have been any clearer
if you wanna make the world a better place
take a look at yourself, and then make a change.

famous last words:

appreciate what you have in life, i think i have over-used this pointer.
but its true, cherish the ‘now’
you will realised you do have a lot afterall.

– be happy, always. 🙂

g.r.o.o.v.e