(read: 3 second thoughs 17th oct)

its 12th jan today & i hv no idea where i’ll be this weekend. yeap ! i didnt bother to decipher the hints, decided to leave my fate in her hands. haha ! hey ! =) really. i’m going to an unknown location this sun ! wow ! haha i’m good at plannin surprises but she’s better !  

17th – 19th  Jan 2009 – will update this when i’m home !

-happy groovie

me: will it be like super les if i want to bring you somewhere nice for v-dae dinner? not actual day of coz, but in feb.

saw this restaurant & i knew i wanted to bring jen there. 

www.orgo.sg/

i wanted to thank her for the superbly nice bdae trip.

*sob

met her yesterday. full house at timbre.
decided to bring her to the nice restuarant instead.

and she goes ‘i’ve been here..’

*laugher.

god. its gotta be a challenge bringing her somewhere special.

haha ! being the master of creative ideas – i have an idea. (secret for now!)

– groove.

enough.

‘funny how human change coz of circumstance’

snap your finger & you have groove the tigress.

i hv enough of this chinese old man. lets call him COM.

COM in his 50s & i saw him whenever i walk to the warehouse. COM works at a security guard at one of the building. trust me. security is secondary, checkin out girl is his first priority. he goes “xiao jie where are you goin?’ or sometimes he goes ‘oei oei’

of coz, i just ignore him.

until today.

TGIF. naturally i’m in a good mood. windy day, whole weekend + upcoming trip to look forward to. daydreaming where will i be this weekend when someone rudely ‘Oei oei oei’ i knew who that was & as usual, continue walking & stare straight ahead.

as i walked, i got angry & angrier. why am i allowing a stupid old man to do that to me. not only me. my girls experience it as well. why donest anyone speak up? why do i have to suffer in silence?

let me explain: i am not lookin for trouble. it’s a case of i had enough. why shld i allow anyone to walk over me? he is a human, i am a human. we are equal. all these mths, i chosen to keep quiet but he just keep at it. “Oei oei” really. Oei what? never see a woman before?!

enough.

settled my stuff at warehouse.

walked back.

head held high.

i am ready.

i gave him the look, challenging him to say something, anything to my face.
i have all my smart-alec reply ready.  

he kept quiet.

thank you.
that’s all i wanted.
walkin to warehouse in peace, quiet and no stupid disturbance.

– G.

‘becoming a righteous person is more important den becoming an intelligent person and how intelligent can you be if you cant be righteous’

nice.

-G

best friend forever.

‘you dont believe in everlasting love / forever love. what abt bff? there’s a forever in there too. just like any relationship, it could go anytime’
‘you want me to blog abt it?’
‘sure’
‘alrite. let me slp on it’

bff.
why not?

you might change job, change car, change your look, change sex (haha !) grow fat, lose weight, declare bankrupt, move house, you might upgrade from single to married to grandparents..everything and everything.

the pple who walk with you when you are happy, the same pple who stay at your side when you are down.
those are your friends.
and you will remember them, appreciate them and keep them.

pple come, pple go.
but there will be a few special ones that will always be there for you.

so, yeap. friendship are forever. 

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pumpkin: that guy is my best friend.
me: Ooo, your bff !
pumpkin: buddy
me: bff ! pumpkin’s bff ! your bff !
pumpkin: buddy, good friend
me (insist): BFF !

haha ! okie, bff between two guys sound very wrong.
‘bff’ only work between girl – girl / girl – boy context.

seriously, I’ll freak out if pumpkin gave me a ‘orh..yes! he is my bff’ follow by a happy smile. *gross 

where’s my broom?

here the story
1pm. putian, city square mall.

31 dec
the restaurant called to cfm the 1pm reservation leaving me thinkin ‘wow, good service’ 🙂

01 jan
the restaurant called at 12.45 informin us there will be a 15-30 min delay. upset / piss. the staff promise to sit us by1.15pm

1pm
lady at the door apologize for the delay. promise us 15 min. urge me to go shop shop, she’ll call me when the table ready. we decided to stick ard outside the restaurant and chit-chat ! =)

1.15pm.
found myself waiting outside the restaurant. marched over with my finger to my watch and gave her a how-look? didnt bother to say anything.
i was told by the manager ‘clearing the table’

1.20pm
walked over again. manager informin us the kitchen couldnt get the food out on time. replied the manager (with a smile) ‘its really not my problem.’

i could tell the manager is stressed out by me. but too bad..

1.30pm
finally. we are seated. manager tried again to apologize to me. buffet crowd hard to control. replied him with a ‘its okie’ and decided to ignored him.

hello. really. i dont give a damn whether its your kitchen / customers fault. whats the point of reservation if customer are made to wait for 30 min?!

i’m not someone who will que for food. i rather eat somewhere else.

plus its my mum’s bdae..

story #2 –very soon. you guys gotta hv bad impression of me..

dinner with jie yesterday.
ordered our food & jie goes, 7.45pm. see how long its gotta take.

GO !

chit chat, laughed & we realised it 8.05pm.
20 min. not good.

debate some.
look around & noticed lotsa grumpy faces.. everyone waiting for their food !

25 mins.
okie, lets go.

informed the lady at the counter (assuming she the manager, she’s not wearing uniform)
‘we’re leaving. the food taking wayyy too long’
she gave me a ‘huh-lood’

seriously, lady. will you wait 25mins for your food?
and we noticed.. there are lotsa unfulfilled orders in front of ours !

waste time !

hop over to jia xiang & our food were serve within 5 mins.. notice the difference ! 🙂

-groove. witch.

three ‘hair’ guys. 

everytime i saw them, i goes: remind me to blog abt them.

i hv nothing against pple with stylish hair.
it just sorta strange seeing three guys with super stylish hair flipping burgers at the coffeeshop.
we’re all vain pple, but well, look at the other stall owners & you get my point. its usually short, simple, slightly boring which made the three guys stand up.

okie. good. i just need to get that off my chest.

whatsup?!

this entry sat in my draft for nearly 2 mths! im suppose to write abt what i want from a man but i decided to write smt else instead !

my flaws hehe !
goodness! what am i thinking? writing abt oneself.
well, fun. 😉

i told guy, the hardest thing as human is to look at oneself & accept your own flaws. but well, knowing / accepting is one thing. changing is one level up. changing & maintaining is 10 level up. hahaa
enough bullshit.

sensitive.
towards other’s feeling. towards how others look at me.
well, i hv tried to change some.. succeed in tellin myself ‘heck-care lah’

i’m a little sensitive in how others look at me.
well, i guess.. everyone is? no?
yar yar, you might say that i dont give a damn but a little part of you does give a damn. humans.

tardiness.
common knowledge that i dislike pple to be late and i am not afraid of letting him / her know how i felt.

ask my bff. i gave it to her once for keepin me waiting yet.. i still wait for her pretty often. 😉

ah. i hv changed. instead of being grumpy, i learn to keep myself occupied.
it got to a stage that i seems to wait for almost everyone !
how come?! hahaa ! if i insist on gettin pple to pay for my dinner whenever they are late.. EVERY meal will be a FREE meal.

a way to train my patience.
thank you for the free lesson. hehe

clueless.
super long list.
clueless abt – IT stuff, how things work, dating, everything & anything falls under this list.

well, well. i’m blessed.. to be surrounded by smart pple.

don’t.
the food that i don’t consume.

duck / pepper / anything – lime / durian / peanuts / pineapple / bitter gourd / boil egg / bandung / green chilli..

crybaby.
fine. i shld admit it. since everyone say so !
(read tears oct 05^th)

from my BE lecturer.
you’ll be call to answer qn -_-
my full name is a mouthful for most pple, so decided to simply write ‘ying’ my tiny plant from jie.
the competition is on … see-whose-plant-will-die-first ! hahaa

– groove

(read: would you rather.. 08th jan 2010)

bff asked – how come she received the simple task? (eat durian)
well, notink is too difficult for her. consider she as ‘on’ as i am.

yeap !
i just tot of one – black hair.
she havent had black hair since 1990s! haha !

Oo, she wants a crazy-sorta-task.

hmm.
be my first passenger.
ride bike with me.
haha !

hmm.
megazip adventure park @ sentosa.

hmm.
reverse bungee jumping.

i know ! i know !
rem the elves we saw at orchard?
yeap baby ! lets do it !
haha

challenging enough?

your bff ying.

PS – okie. lets close this topic. 🙂