Guys (not my guy – my mistake, my guy too! ) but GUYS in general. please take this in the spirit in which its offered..which is from a woman’s perceptive.

please. do not plant ur butt w/o asking. what? you left ur manners at home?

even though i might look as if i’m alone. fyi – i wasn’t alone, ling went to get her food.

ask & you shall receive. okie. not necessary. depends on how u look. i’m not gotta share my table with a guy who dig his nose in front of me. keke

Guy; Dun mess with her! Run for ur life – i’ll confiscate your sports shoe !

Girl –my guy does this ! let me explain the scenario: i gotten my food, left in on the table, decided to get my drink. i walk back to the table & realize there’s a stranger at ‘my’ table. hesitate. went back to ‘my’ table & sat down – opposite this stranger. ( i tink it polite to wait for ling before we both start eating ) so, there i am. waiting for ling & watchin this stranger eating his prawn mee in front me. and i wondered – what if there a gp of us & i needed the seat, i hv to chase the stranger away “sorry, take ur half-eaten prawn mee & shoo off?” 😀 that even more embarrassing.. back to my point. a.s.k.e.d before sitting. manners folks. PS – pay attention to a woman’s advise & ur life wont be endangered.