life is not a bed of roses.

just like every couple, we do fight.
and, we have our first wedding-fight.

roar !!

i saw his guest list and i knew he’s inviting his ex.
i am okie with it.

i’m okie because:-
– i dont give a damn abt her. haahahhaa

but somehow.. i started thinking..
‘shld we really invite her??’

i blogged abt his ex before.
she’s part of the roll-eye couple who couldn’t keep her hands off her bf during the steamboat dinner.

(for the record: she wasnt like this in the past… )

am i going to invite someone like that to MY wedding?

honestly, i dont want my mum, relatives, colls, friends to ask me:
”minying, who’s that girl? why she like that? cannot keep her hands to herself!”

im gotta be so embarrassed. and its my wedding!
imagine, they found out she is the groom’s ex.
disaster !

or what if i send someone to ”tell her off”’ during the banquet.
its gotta be equally embarrassing, for her.

thinking abt all that.
i got furious.
-_-

what was he thinking?
why would he invite his ex to our wedding?
why didnt he spare a tot for my feeling?
i know she’s part of his SIM group, but how am i suppose to face my friends? hmpf !!

and i tot, why cant i invite my ex to our wedding den?
at least my ex behave properly !
so mad !

and when a woman is mad, we pick a fight with our man !

there i am, fighting with pumpkin over this issue.
citing all d reason why she should not attend.

of coz, he gave in.

still, i was unhappy abt it.
i just cant get past the fact that he intend to invite her knowing that she’s gotta PDA with her bf  at our wedding !
thats sucha insult to me !

i comprised by inviting her but not her bf. there’s no opportunity for them to PDA. i dont care how pumpkin is gotta inform her but i felt that’s his ‘punishment’ for inviting her in the first place. hmpf

still, i went to bed mad at him.

the following morning.. i received an awful-awful call..
ended the call, told my family abt it.

i called pumpkin, share with him the bad news..
i started crying.. and he cried too..

*blink back tears.. *

i concluded.. it doesn’t matter who attend our wedding.
as long as those matters to me are there.

having said that, i am still not inviting his ex’s bf.
too bad.
*shrug

– G