“A difficult situation can be handled in two ways: We can either do something to change it, or face it. If we can do something, then why worry and get upset over it – just change it. If there is nothing we can do, again, why worry and get upset over it? Things will not get better with anger and worry” ~Shantideva~
“Worry is like a rocking chair, it rocks but it gets you nowhere.” ~Guy~
I met girl for dinner on Wed nite. She knows I like the pasta at Shoduko Jap Restaurant and so we went there. As usual, pasta + waffer with ice-cream.
Waiter asked what ice-cream to go with waffer. I said to girl “Rum & rasins okay?”, and she goes “Yeah, okay.”. And order taken.
Comes the waffer. She ate the first 1/4… finishes it… and i was about the give her the 2nd 1/4…. then she said “Do u remember the salty coffee story?”. I said “Yeah, why?”.
She goes “Actually i dun like rum & rasins at all.”
I said “Then why u din stop me? Some more i asked u twice.”
She just keep laughing. girl – yeap, i couldnt stop laughin! She wanted to let me have wat i want, to make me happy, and thus make her happy as well.
Girl, i do appreciate ur tots from ur heart. girl – oh please. i’m not usually this nice. keke But then huh, why toture urself!? Wat if i like to eat duck buttocks and i ordered a whole plate. (for ur info, duck buttocks is most smelly thing that appears on a dinning table, to me). girl – sorry. i draw the line at duck. u know i dont eat duck.
Moral of the story? I let girl finish this, coz she and i were sort of fighting to blog abt this.
girl – the moral is … love is blind? or i’m too stupid ! guy, do your conclusion. i’m still laughin at myself.
Conclusion: A much milder version of unconditional love? Stage 10 of unconditional love is when girl sacrifice and eat a plate of duck buttocks i ordered. .. Juz kidding. Find that girl is trying her best to keep me happy, and she did. But…. i’m okay with chocolate chips too.
girl’s conclusion: sorry gotta jump in & interrupt ! i didnt try my best to make him happy… he wanted to have rum & rasins previously but it was sold out! decide to let the man have what he wants.. w/o tinking abt what i want ! like i said..i’m dumb. (the things u do when u love someone !) haha but it wasnt a toture seein him njoyin the rum & rasins…
well, juz to put some smile in ur face… Enjoy!
A bus carrying only ugly people crashes into an oncoming truck, and everyone inside dies. They then get to meet their maker, and because of the grief they have experienced; He decides to grant them one wish each, before they enter Paradise.
They’re all lined up, and God asks the first one what the wish is. “I want to be gorgeous,” and so God snaps His fingers, and it is done.
The second one in line hears this and says “I want to be gorgeous too.”
Another snap of His fingers and the wish is granted.
This goes on for a while but when God is halfway down the line, the last guy in line starts laughing. When there are only ten people left, this guy is rolling on the floor, laughing.
Finally, God reaches this guy and asks him what his wish will be.
The guy calms down and says: ” Make ’em all ugly again.”
We saw this sign during our HSBC treetop trail walk…..
HSBC Treetop Walk trail danger sign
So…. wat r we suppose to do then? Look upwards when walking? Wear helmets? Buy more insurance? Dun come here? Good luck to you? God bless u?
Just like putting a sign in the public bus that says: “Bus may crash, take care”………
Hey, juz joking…. But start writing ur will….. heehee girl – remember to name me in ur will, joking ! 🙂 i rather have u with me, rather den all the monies in the world. okie, sorry getitn mushy !
my girl wants me to write about my red car, the thing which bothered her all along. girl – thank you !
first date, i insisted on fetching her and sending her home. She kept rejecting, i keep insisting… haha… I was not sensitive enough to pick up her signs of worries in sitting in my car. She’s actually afraid that i might… u know… bring her to a place she doesn’t want go. girl – not my habit to hop into stranger’s car. RED car for god’s sake ! yet i know, he’s not that kind of person.
first time she saw my car, she was thinking “why red? of all colours, why red? r u a playboy?!”. I’m driving a red Lancer EX with a rear spoiler…. Well it looks sporty i agree… playboy? My girl always have that impression of guys who drives doesn’t behave well… girl – sporty?! no, it not! your red car have ‘playboy’ written all over it ! remind myself that guy is NOT that kind of man. at least he’s not when we chat via msn !
Why red? I narrow down with White, Black and Red to choose, so i ask my mum to choose, and my mum choose red. Am i a mummy’s boy?? Keke… Why Lancer EX? I like the roomy interior. Why the spoiler? (spoiler? not english!?) Coz my sales agent throw into my package FOC… Why drive? For work and for my baby niece… girl – he impressed me. playboy to a mummy’s boy / family guy. i like that.
Introducing a new member of the tigger and friends community….. Mira the Miracle Elephant!!! clap clap!
The ‘father’ of this baby is rightfully…. Jen.
Yes, she was the one responsible for the birth of this baby elephant. Hmmm… ask Jen!
I (guy) am the one delivered the baby. Luckily it brings a smile on my girl’s face, good Mira didn’t disappoint me.
Curious public members are welcome to take a look at Mira at Minying’s workdesk. No feeding please. Donations are welcome.
Interrupted by Girl: i like mira but orchid?! tsk tsk, you have alot to learn 🙂